Our Past and Our Futures

It’s crazy how much our pasts really do effect our future. The way we were brought up the things that we have gone through have shifted and changed us. Sometimes we don’t realize it or think about it. But each day and it’s events creates a new part of your future. I have been guilty of trying to put my past in a box at times and hide it away because some of it wasn’t the greatest. But by doing this there are times that that box that we hide gets re opened and if we haven’t dealt with those issues they continue to haunt us no matter how big or small. Relationships also have a way of changing and molding us. From it being a loving one or a controlling one and all in-between. And let me tell you from experience too its easy to carry over things into the next relationship. But what molds and changes our Past and our Futures the most is what we learn from everything. If we can look outside of ourselves and our flaws and learn how to change things and not like history repeat itself thats when we change and grow. It is so easy to blame everything and other people for what we go through. Throwing the blame onto others is the easy way out. To be able to change and realize the patterns that is the true strength right there. Just remember that everyone out there is going through something however big or small and we can’t judge those going through things that we have never gone through. If you are one of those people fighting for something or pushing to fix things that you know need fixing to be a better person know that you are doing awesome! It’s not an easy thing and each day is a new journey and a new battle but you’re amazing and if no one else has said it today you are strong, beautiful, and you rock. Thanks for reading 🙂